In the first half, transformational leadership coach and author Amba Gale explained how authentic listening can reshape relationships, healthcare, and our sense of purpose. According to Gale, most people struggle to listen effectively because they are distracted by an internal dialogue. "We are unaware that we have a voice inside our head that talks to us all the time, and we listen to that voice instead of listening to the people who we're with," she insisted. Gale noted that people frequently judge, prepare responses, or attempt to fix others rather than being fully present. "I put aside my judgments, my opinions, my advice, even my need to respond, and I enter your world," she stated.
Gale shared her personal health journey regarding a benign frontal lobe brain tumor discovered in 2006. After three surgeons warned her that she would permanently lose her sense of taste and smell, she sought out Dr. Keith Black at Cedars-Sinai. Dr. Black actually listened to her concerns, reexamined her MRI, and assured her he could save one of her olfactory nerves. Following a successful six-hour surgery, Dr. Black held a cup of coffee under her nose to confirm her sense of smell was intact. Gale described this moment as establishing a profound spiritual connection between doctor and patient.
Another example of effective listening came from her strained relationship with her father. At 27, while considering a leave from teaching after her marriage ended, Gale saw her father as controlling and likely to reject her decision. A workshop challenged her to reinterpret the situation, leading her to recognize his difficult history: immigration from Ukraine, the murder of his father, the Depression, and the death of Gale's mother. She said she began hearing his concern for her wellbeing rather than reacting to his anger. Her father wept and told her, "That's all I've ever wanted for you."
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In the second half, psychic medium Ericka Boussarhane discussed cellular memory and the enhancement of her psychic abilities following a life-saving kidney transplant. Boussarhane explained she was born with polycystic kidney disease inherited from her father. After years of declining kidney function and home dialysis, she received a transplant two days before her birthday in 2019. "I just felt different," she recalled after waking from surgery. "It was a feeling that I was no longer alone." She attributed new food cravings and creative urges to cellular memory from her deceased male donor.
Boussarhane explained that organ transplants can transfer traits or memories from donors to recipients. "I have in the past heard communication from him specifically," Boussarhane stated regarding her donor's spirit. She also noted that her pre-existing psychic abilities grew stronger after the operation. Born into a family of psychics, she previously trained under established mediums and now utilizes clairvoyance, clairaudience, and clairsentience in her practice. "I can say that it definitely did enhance my abilities," Boussarhane reported, adding that deceased spirits now appear to her with greater frequency.
On death and the afterlife, Boussarhane said she believes consciousness leaves the body before death and that dying people may visit loved ones in this way. She also claimed deceased pets may guide new animals to grieving owners, and encouraged listeners to trust dreams, memories, recurring numbers, and apparitions. "You saw it. Believe it," Boussarhane asserted.
News segment guests: Jeff Nelken, Kevin Randle
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Relevant Books:
- The Heart of Sacred Listening
- Crossing Thresholds: Island Reflections
- Connect with Spirit: Chakra Cleanse and Psychic Development
- Relationship Rehab: Releasing Past Relationships, Healing, and Attracting Healthy Relationships
- Love Never Dies: Meeting Your Loved Ones, Pets, and Spirit Guides Through Mediumship